After some research
I settled on a draw tite hitch from e-trailer
It is rated at 2000 lbs and max of 200 lb tongue weight
I don't expect my trailer to be anywhere near that but rugged is better than
Light weight when it comes to trailer hitches
The scariest part in the install is cutting out the slot in the Bolts rear bumper cover.
Note***
Instructions say 3.25" wide x 5" tall in the center
I assumed the 5" was measured vertically so my slot actually came in st
5.75" after putting it together it seems they mean
5" measured along the face of the rear cover
Pop two rear cover plastic retainers
Remove bottom two screws of the bumper mount
Place two rear attachment screws with anti rotation bars
And cool fish wire into the big hole in the cars frame
Lift whole hitch under the now loose rear bumper cover
And hang it from the two bumper studs .
Start the two nuts but don't tighten until the frame bolts have been passed through the big hitch stabilizer arms
Tighten the 4 bolts and the hitch is installed
Will work on the light kit today